Jennifer Lopez and Alex Rodriguez Jennifer Lopez has made it very clear that she's head over heels for baseball great Alex Rodriguez, so much that the two celebrated their late July birthdays together.Jennifer turned 48 on July 24, and her new love A-Rod turned 42 on July 27.I was a cougar before there were cougars.” Indeed, Wheeler’s pre-marriage and post-divorce dating history reads like a steamy screenplay.She listed a string of young men with whom she had various relationships, occasionally punching numbers into a calculator to determine age differences she had never considered in the first place.To her shock and bemusement, there was a new term to describe what she had been doing most of her life — dating younger men.Wheeler, a fiery redhead who lives outside Baltimore, leaned back in her chair and sighed. “I liked younger guys even when I was in high school — like a year or two younger.So a lady never shows so much as a hint of lingerie lace?
I was single, and thought, “Well, I have to do this anyway, so why don’t I do it for real? I got an avalanche of responses, and to my surprise, the majority of them were from younger men. ” and I’ve been very happily dating younger men ever since. I have never wanted to be married, I’ve never wanted children, and I don’t want to be in a relationship in the conventional sense.Maybe you're even thinking seriously about finding yourself a strapping young stud, wondering if you still have the right stuff.Or perhaps (more likely) you're just fantasizing about what you'd need to do if you ever decided you wanted to try out the Mrs. The bad news: There's more to becoming a cougar than hanging out a "sex wanted" sign.They may go on to date women their own age, or to move to different places, but we stay friends. And then every so often, their relationships end, and they return to me. When lots of stamina (and blissfully short recovery periods) meets confidence and experience, it’s a terrific combination.Some women tell me they’d feel too insecure about their bodies to sleep with someone young, but when you operate on the criterion I do — that they have to be nice — you meet younger men who appreciate everything about older women.